Communicating your thoughts to others can be hard for anyone. Imagine adding Aphasia (loss of language,
not intellect) on top of these communication difficulties. How do I say what I feel and think without offending
someone? How do I get you to understand my point?
Here are a few things folks with Aphasia might be trying to tell you.
(Remember, Aphasia is loss of language due to brain injury or stroke. It has nothing to do with intelligence.)
1. Patience is key. Please speak slowly. I need more time to understand.
2. Maintain respect. Aphasia affects my language skills and not my intelligence. Just because I have a hard
time talking doesn’t mean I don’t know what I want to say.
3. Use Simple Language: Simplify sentences without talking down to me. Message that are clear and
concise are best.
4. Non-verbal Cues Matter: Body language, gestures, and facial expressions are important tools in
communication. They help me to understand your message.
5. Don’t do or say it for me. It is empowering for me to figure it out. Your patience is appreciated!
6. Avoid Assumptions: Don’t assume you know what I wants to say. Always confirm by asking.
7. I am not anti-social. Crowds and large noises are difficult for me to process.
8. It might seem that I have recovered completely, but my rehabilitation journey is far from over. I’m
determined to reach my goals. Remember, appearances can be deceiving, and my brain is still healing.
9. Be considerate. I may need to take a break from our conversation and process.
10. Aphasia Varies: It can range from mild to severe and affects each person differently.
11. Support Systems: Encourage and be a part of my support network. Your involvement is crucial.